Our families have had some issues that has changed quite a lot of what we are focused on, and I guess that when it came to blogging, it took a very far back seat. My mother-in-law has had such a hard time with back pain that she decided to have back surgery. Her recovery has been slower than we hoped, and it is such a stress to see her in pain, and struggle to walk. The surgery went well, and she is finally without her walker or cane, but it is still a while before she will be fully recovered. She has an incentive to keep going, as she has all her children in the same country this year, and wants to make a road trip to visit them.
My mother decided to have a full knee replacement in June. That was a tough surgery, complicated with some infections in the skin, but it went very well. We are so impressed with how well she is walking! And, mom knows she will need to do the other one at a later date, and will feel more herself when she can walk. We are so blessed that our family is close, as we all rallied to help after her surgery. My sisters My sisters were amazing nurses. My dad had to work, as he is his own boss, so the big sisters kept the pain pills, therapy, meals, and running of the household, as well as their own homes, running so smoothly. We also were able to have all the family together to see her, which is the best therapy around for my mom.
But the biggest reason for the quietness here, is my younger brother. Around the end of school, the Best Gregory of all, was diagnosed with ALS, or Lou Gerhig's disease. It was a long time of testing until it was official, and we were hoping and praying that it was not. But this has made our family all feel the need to come close, to be here, to see him, to try not to wear him out too much, but to pray and be here. With all those feelings, we have had visits from the out of town families. Joe is such an example of how love and suffering go together. He has always touched lives, even as a little guy, and everyone wants to pray for him. The grace and acceptance with which he has had with this diagnosis has been so beautiful. Please pray for him and his family. It has been quite a lot to process, and the kids seem to ask me if I am crying all the time, because I am.
But, before any of this happened, our family had already made plans to celebrate an extremely special lady. My mom turns 70 this year (we also have 50 and 40 in our family). We decided to do a party at my house, and it was another occasion where we could be together. We were missing some cousins and in-laws, but all 7 kids again! Longtime friends and family came, and everyone had a wonderful time. I was a bit stressed out to plan the party, but my wonderful friend Lucia catered, and it was delicious. The whole family pitched in to help make the day wonderful, with decorations, seating, a slide show, a special cheesecake (who knew that was my mom's favorite?), music, a punch that will knock the bad mood out of anyone, especially Sherman, and support for me each time I called in a panic.
The best joy for me, was that my brother and 3 of his girls came to stay with us. My kids were so happy to have them, and it filled my heart so much to hear them all together. One of the girls actually brought a special toy from Vermont for Lucy to play with, as they remembered that she loved it during our visit. And they left it here for her to have. What sweetness!
We also had some birthdays, and a VERY long scout camping trip, as well as a family funeral. It was a very full summer. But not the kind that most think of when you say "we were busy."
Friends: if you would like to join us in praying for the intercession of Fr. Al Schwartz for my brother, we would appreciate it!
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